Army Captain Nick Nethery offer some thoughts about our current approach to “training” military members about sexual assault ans suicide prevention. Like many comments on this blog, he is not a fan with the “death by powerpoint” approach many commanders take to address the problem:
Are leaders “checking the block” by administering these classes, choosing to believe their command is safe afterward, rather than addressing the underlying issues behind a rise in harassment and assault? I am no psychologist or sex abuse counselor, but I am a leader who tried to care about my soldiers when I had the fortune to lead them. During my time in command, I was skeptical of the Army’s solution to this problem. I took a more dynamic approach. I knew all my soldiers, their families, their birthdays, their kids’ names, what their goals and aspirations were, what kind of music and beer and cars they liked. I had male and female soldiers, of all ages and backgrounds. Not to be too sappy, but we were family. And you know what? We never had any of these problems.
Again, I just see my little lane. I’m no general. But I realized the limitations of the Army’s answer to suicide prevention and sexual assault, and took a more active approach, one where I knew my soldiers down to the tiniest detail. I trusted them — and showed them I did — and they trusted me. I don’t flatter myself that all my soldiers liked me. I didn’t have perfect commands, and we had some other minor discipline issues, but in four years leading soldiers I never had a single incident of suicide, suicidal ideation, or sexual harassment/assault. It worked for me. My own bosses saw that my method worked, and were supportive as long as I was meeting the Army’s required training guidelines.
Read it all here.
Charles A. Blanchard
United States Air Force